1 00:00:00,450 --> 00:00:07,080 Be kind to yourself up to this point, we've covered the fundamentals of cognitive, behavioral and 2 00:00:07,350 --> 00:00:13,910 mindfulness based strategies and we've seen how these practices can help us manage strong emotions. 3 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:20,010 We examine the practical ways of taking care of ourselves, mind, body and spirit. 4 00:00:20,580 --> 00:00:27,630 Joint agreement as the alarm clock went off, you have to start getting to bed earlier, he told himself 5 00:00:27,630 --> 00:00:35,670 as he sat up and rubbed his eyes after taking a quick shower and grabbed a cup of coffee, eating fast 6 00:00:35,670 --> 00:00:39,180 as he thought about the big day ahead at work. 7 00:00:39,780 --> 00:00:48,240 As he put his dishes in the sink, he bruised himself to face the morning rush hour in the car. 8 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:54,600 He divided his attention between listening to news with its daily reminder of all that was wrong in 9 00:00:54,600 --> 00:01:00,000 the world and worrying about all the ways he could mess up at work today. 10 00:01:00,630 --> 00:01:07,070 The morning went surprisingly well, and by finally, John was famished and ready for a break. 11 00:01:07,590 --> 00:01:15,210 However, when his co-workers invited him to join them for lunch, Joe decided he hadn't gotten enough 12 00:01:15,210 --> 00:01:17,550 done to take a lunch break. 13 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:25,230 And instead he grabbed his some snacks from the vending machine to eat at his desk, along with a soda 14 00:01:25,230 --> 00:01:27,360 for the caffeine and sugar boost. 15 00:01:30,390 --> 00:01:39,270 He made three more trips to the vending machine that afternoon for more peanut butter crackers once 16 00:01:39,270 --> 00:01:46,470 because he was hungry once when he was bored and anxious, and once in the late afternoon for another 17 00:01:46,470 --> 00:01:51,060 diet cola to power him through his four o'clock slump. 18 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:57,380 After the second stressful commute of the day, John thought about hitting the gym before dinner and 19 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:04,590 but he wasn't sure he had the energy and instead he took the leftover pizza and ate. 20 00:02:04,950 --> 00:02:07,560 Afterward, he finished a bit of ice cream. 21 00:02:08,430 --> 00:02:15,360 Around midnight, John started to note off his sleep hadn't been good lately, so he tried his best 22 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:19,110 not to wake himself up as he walked upstairs to bed. 23 00:02:19,380 --> 00:02:26,130 Despite his desperate wishes, he was fully awake as soon as his head hit the pillow. 24 00:02:26,460 --> 00:02:31,560 I'm going to be a wreck tomorrow, he thought as he tried harder to fall asleep.